Wednesday, May 28, 2008

The Joy of Being Unique

Before anyone else calls me an "inspiration" because of the backbend post, let me just remind you all what I look like most of the time.


That ought to make you feel better already!!


I have been thinking how great it is that there are so many different ways to exercise and ways to be active. I have always wanted to be one of those people that could fly through the air in a gorgeous leap. My legs are flexible enough but I have never had the hops...the jumping gene. If I COULD jump, perhaps I would look something like this....


......but really I just photo-shopped a picture of me doing extended Adho Mukha Svanasana, or Downward Dog, on a yoga mat and looked like this!

Because of my muscle type and bottom heavy body make up, I am better at things like yoga, aerobics, weight lifting, walking....squatting.:) Whereas people like my husband, or maybe even you, are better at quick sports like tennis, basketball, track/running, or jumping over couches in a single bound (that's what Joe does). My point is, find the joy in your type of exercise. Find the method of exercising that makes you feel confident and yet can still challenge you. Then when you have found what you like and what really works for you, you can then keep your weight and muscles from plateauing by adding in a kickbox class, or try lifting weights, or try yoga, or racketball, or Dance Dance Revolution...try something new, knowing already what you are good at and what works best for you and your body.

The tricky part then, is to quit comparing and judging your body type or weight loss progression against someone elses. The path to being fit is just that...a path...it IS the journey. We will never reach "the goal" and then coast through the rest of life un-haunted by Ben and Jerry cravings. That is actually why we call yoga a practice...not a routine, not a work-out...but a yoga practice. Yoga, and truly exercise in any form, is a path of changes as our bodies go in and out of the different seasons of our lives. At times we will be able to run 6 miles, at other times, pushing a stroller to the park is breath taking (that was me three days ago). But if we always make an effort to do some kind of exercise...exercise that brings us joy...hopefully we will see over time a consistent improvement and growth in our health and in our body image. Be patient with your body, stay on the path, and find the joy in what makes you unique.

3 comments:

Megan B ♥ said...

OK #1 -- you do NOT look like that "most" of the time. Just some of the time :)

I like that, yoga "practice". And that extended downward dog is amazing! I've been trying that a lot recently and you would laugh your butt off to see how ridiculous mine is!! I can't believe you even have your leg twisted! You're an animal! I loved that you photoshopped it to look like a leap. I never would have guessed :)

Becky said...

Good advice, but finding what I like to do isn't the problem. The PROBLEM is finding when and how to exercise and having the resources to change it up enough to not get bored with it. Exercising with kids is so much more complicated and I'm not willing to stick them in a gym daycare and let them watch TV while I get a workout. It just isn't worth it to me. I also live in the 3rd worse city for your heart - rated recently I heard on the news- because all the roads are very very narrow with huge trees on the side and no shoulders and speed limits are 40 mph or faster. So risking my life not to mention sucking exhaust to exercise isn't worth it either.
Going on a year without finding a satisfying way to exercise and really feeling it! - suggestions?

Megan B ♥ said...

I am so excited to try that broccoli soup recipe!